You're Engaged! Now What? A Guide for the Newly Minted Mr. & Mrs.

Dearest Newly Engaged Couple,

First, let's take a moment to celebrate. Squeal! The question was asked, the answer was "YES!", and now a tiny, sparkly piece of magic adorns your hand. Congratulations! From all of us here at Marquise Weddings & Events, we are absolutely thrilled for you as you embark on one of the most exciting journeys of your lives.

Floating on a Cloud of Bliss

Right now, you’re likely floating on a cloud of pure bliss. You're calling friends and family, sharing the exciting news, and you can't stop gazing at your ring. This is a special time, and you should savor every single second of it. Don't rush into anything just yet. Celebrate your love, your partnership, and the beautiful future that awaits you both.

The Overwhelming World of Wedding Planning

Once the initial excitement begins to settle, a new feeling might creep in: "Okay, so... now what?" Suddenly, the vast world of wedding planning can seem overwhelming. But don’t worry—that's exactly why we are here. We want to help you navigate this wonderful process with joy, not stress.

First Steps After the Engagement

To get you started, here are a few fun and simple "first steps" to take after the engagement confetti has settled:

• Announce Your Engagement (On Your Terms!): Whether it's a social media post, a beautifully written card, or a simple phone call, share the news with your loved ones. This is a perfect opportunity to get them excited about your big day and to officially kick off the celebrations.

  
  

• Enjoy the Moment & Dream Together: Before diving into venue tours and vendor contracts, sit down with your fiancé and talk about your vision. What's most important to you both? Is it a grand celebration or an intimate gathering? A destination wedding in Orlando, Florida, or a local celebration in Tulsa, Oklahoma? This is not about making concrete decisions but about dreaming together and understanding what kind of day will feel most "you."

  
  

• Set a Preliminary Budget (and a Guest List!): We know this sounds less fun than dreaming about flowers. But trust us, a little planning now will save you a lot of stress later. Have an honest conversation about what you are comfortable spending and who you absolutely cannot imagine celebrating without. These two things will be your guiding stars throughout the entire process.

  
  

• Brainstorm Your Wedding "Vibe": Head to Pinterest (or create a good old-fashioned scrapbook!). Start pinning and collecting images that inspire you. Don’t just look at wedding photos; find images of colors, places, and feelings that resonate with you. Is your vibe bohemian and natural, or classic and elegant? Do you dream of a garden party or a glamorous ballroom affair? This will help you and your planner narrow down your options later on.

  
  

• Start Researching Wedding Planners!: (Ahem!) This is where we come in! Think of us as your wedding day fairy godmothers. We are here to help you turn your dreams into reality, manage the details, and ensure that your engagement period is just as joyful as your wedding day itself. A great wedding planner is your partner in crime—they bring organization, expertise, and a whole lot of fun to the planning process.

  
  

Crafting Your Unique Love Story

Your wedding day is a celebration of your unique love story, and the journey to get there should be just as special. As you embark on this adventure, remember that every detail matters. From the flowers to the music, each choice reflects your shared narrative.

Imagine walking down the aisle, surrounded by loved ones, as melodies of your favorite songs fill the air. Picture the laughter, the joy, and the tears of happiness. This is not just a day; it’s a tapestry woven from the threads of your love.

The Importance of Personal Touches

In the midst of planning, don’t forget to infuse personal touches into your celebration. Perhaps you want to include a family heirloom in your attire or choose a venue that holds special memories for you both. These elements will make your day even more meaningful.

Embracing the Planning Process

As you dive deeper into the planning process, embrace the journey. It’s easy to get caught up in the details, but remember to enjoy the moments. Each decision, big or small, is a step closer to your dream day.

Consider scheduling regular date nights dedicated to wedding planning. This can be a fun way to bond and share ideas without feeling overwhelmed. With each passing day, you are crafting a beautiful future together.

Ready to Start the Adventure?

We are so excited for you both and can't wait to see what beautiful things you create together. Ready to start the adventure? We’re here when you are.

With so much love,

The Marquise Weddings & Events Team

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